vierge-noire:

lord-kitschener:

Anyways the “choke me daddy 😘😘😍😜💦💦” shit is creepy af to begin with, and it’s even worse that it’s now widely viewed as normal and something that a girl should be into during sex if she wants to show that she’s a Cool Girl™

Ok but no joke there’s an increasing number of guys nowadays who just ASSUME that all women are into being choked/slapped/spit on/called vile names and other degrading shit (as long as it’s in a sexual context, which makes it magically ok I guess!), like they won’t even ask if it’s ok for them to do it before they just go for it because they’re surrounded by a culture that reinforces this as standard behavior. It’s pretty screwed up how this has become what many young adults consider the new normal for human sexuality. The way some people react to women who insist that they have no desire to be treated like subhumans during sexual encounters would make you think that “””vanilla””” sex is the most scandalous thing in the world.